There was a moment when all she ever wanted was to be remembered. Now, she began to wonder if being forgotten wasn’t a better choice. Remembering someone was too often linked with painful thoughts. She wanted more for the people she loved. They deserved better than her.
reflections of an unquiet mind 
I very much doubt they would agree with the writer.
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I do too. I doubt it too, because we always think less of ourselves then others.
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