Soen – Reliance (album review)

I put Reliance on without expecting it to do anything surprising. It was released on January 16th, 2026, and I had been waiting for it in that quiet, patient way that only happens when you already trust a band. I was fortunate enough to preorder one of the 200 limited signed copies, which already gave the first listen a sense of ritual, like opening something that had chosen its place before I had even heard it. I listened for the first time on a quiet Saturday morning, the house still, the kind of stillness that feels borrowed. I played it twice back to back, not out of analysis but out of that rare, wordless awe that comes after hearing something great before your mind rushes in to explain it.


That is not a criticism, by the way. With Soen, the surprise is rarely in the shape of the music, but in how deeply it settles once you stop bracing for impact. They have always written heavy music that does not behave like heavy music. It breathes, it holds back, it waits. Their version of progressive metal is built on rhythm, repetition, and restraint rather than constant technical display. You hear echoes of Tool in the patience, Katatonia in the melancholy, and something almost post-rock in the way atmosphere carries meaning, but it never feels like imitation. It feels like a language they have refined over years of knowing exactly who they are.


The current line-up makes sense in a very physical way. Joel Ekelöf’s voice is calm and steady, but there is always something cracking underneath, like emotion being held in place by discipline. Martín López is the quiet architect of the whole thing. His drumming never shows off, but constantly shifts the ground, keeping the songs alive rather than looped. Cody Lee Ford’s guitar work is expressive without being indulgent, shaping mood more than proving skill. Lars Åhlund fills the spaces most bands forget exist, with keys and textures that change the colour of a song without demanding attention, and Stefan Stenberg’s bass gives everything weight, not just low end, but intention.


What I hear on Reliance is a band that consciously chose contrast as a compositional tool. They have spoken about writing more freely than before, experimenting with tuning, texture, and vocal approach, then cutting back hard during arrangement so the songs stayed clear and direct. You can hear that discipline everywhere. Nothing feels crowded. Nothing feels like it is there because it should be. Heavy parts are allowed to be heavy, and quiet parts are trusted to carry the song without being padded.


“Mercenary” moves forward with purpose, a tight, grounded drive that never rushes. The riff feels physical, but the song breathes around it, softened by subtle shifts that keep it from becoming rigid. Lyrically it carries the weight of inherited violence, the idea that conviction can be passed down like a burden rather than a gift. The chorus lifts, but it does not celebrate. It endures. That tension between strength and cost is where the song lives, and it never lets go.


“Discordia” works differently. It begins almost subdued, then slowly tightens until it breaks open into something heavier and more insistent, but even there, the band refuse to stay in one emotional register. The middle section twists briefly into a strange, almost retro-prog space, before the song finds its way back. It feels like a thought changing direction mid-sentence, which is something Soen do remarkably well. Joel’s voice here carries strain, and that strain matters.


“Indifferent” is where the album steps back and looks you straight in the eye. Piano, voice, space. Nothing hidden. The question it asks is simple and brutal: how does someone become so emotionally distant that they no longer react at all? It is not only about relationships, but about numbness as survival. The band understood that adding anything would weaken it, so they did not. Restraint becomes honesty here.


And then there is “Vellichor”, which is, without hesitation, the standout for me. It builds slowly and patiently, layering atmosphere and melody until it opens into something almost ceremonial. Nothing is rushed. No instrument fights for space. Everyone listens. When the final surge comes, it feels earned, and that is what makes it hit so hard. It is the kind of song that leaves you sitting still after the last note, not because you are impressed, but because you are not ready to move yet.


Technically, the album is immaculate without being sterile. Recorded and mixed at Fascination Street Studios and mastered by Tony Lindgren, it has clarity without coldness. The low end is deep but controlled, and the dynamics are preserved in a way that lets silence matter just as much as volume. It sounds like a band that trusted both their engineer and their instincts enough not to overcorrect.


What stays with me most is the feeling of maturity without stiffness. Soen are not chasing anything here. They are refining. They rely on craft, on listening to each other, and on the idea that music does not have to shout to be heavy. Reliance feels like quiet confidence made audible, the kind that comes from knowing when to push and when to let go. It stays with you because it does not beg for attention. It simply waits.

In the dark we are all the same. In the light we can only be us.

Between now and then

I keep seeing the same posts everywhere: 2016 vs 2026. Faces, bodies, time collapsed into two images. I understand the urge. Ten years is just enough distance to look without flinching. But I don’t really change in pictures. Not in a way that tells the story.


So I took the train sideways. Instead of showing my face, I looked at my shelves. At the records I bought in 2016. At the music I lived with while everything else was still in draft form. Houses unbuilt. Jobs not started. Children small. Words everywhere.


This is what ten years sound like when you listen backwards.


Some of these albums were everywhere that year. The ones every music lover has on their shelves. A Moon Shaped Pool was unavoidable, and for good reason. Radiohead released an album that sounded like an ending without drama, a band stepping back rather than forward, leaving space where urgency used to be. It’s a record that doesn’t age because it already sounds like memory.


Blackstar by David Bowie belongs to that same category. Not loved by everyone, but owned by almost everyone who cares about music as more than background noise. It’s not a comfortable listen, but it was never meant to be. It marks a moment when pop music stopped pretending it could outlive its makers.


Other records from 2016 slipped past the noise more quietly. Weather Systems by Anathema had already been out for years, but it re-entered my life that year for a simple reason: I lost the CD. I’m fairly sure it was still in the car I sold, left behind in the player like a forgotten note. So I bought the reissued digipack and put it back on the shelf, even though I already owned the original vinyl from 2012. It was their most accessible album, the point where their long, heavy arcs finally opened into something almost weightless. Long songs, yes, but with doors instead of walls. It unfolds like weather rather than narrative, and it suited a year that was all preparation and no arrival.


2016 was also generous to people who listen for atmosphere. Mogwai’s Atomic turned tension into architecture. Ólafur Arnalds released Island Songs, tying music to place in a way that felt intimate without being small. Peter Broderick’s Grunewald walked the line between folk and silence. And then there was A Wave of Endorphins by Her Name Is Calla, a record that never really found the audience it deserved, hovering somewhere between post-rock and song, beautiful in a way that requires patience.
The shelves tell a wider story if you look closely. 2016 was the year Kindly Now by Keaton Henson lived on repeat, the year of returning to foundations: Pink Floyd reissues, The Wall, The Division Bell, records that had already taught me how to listen, now coming back in heavier sleeves, as if they needed to be held again. There were darker corners too: Alcest’s Kodama, Antimatter’s Too Late and Welcome to the Machine, Douglas Dare’s Aforger, music that stays unresolved on purpose. And then the quiet persistence of records like Sivert Høyem’s Lioness or worriedaboutsatan’s Blank Tape, albums that don’t ask for attention but keep it.


Looking back now, it’s the ordinariness of it that stays with me. Records bought, played, shelved. Nothing felt intentional. And yet, the shelves remember more than I do. These are just the 2016 releases. The rest has blurred together, as it does.
I didn’t know the house yet, the one we were still planning and drawing that year, or the work, or the version of me that would come later. Everything was still in draft form. But the music had already been there for a long time, holding the space. And somehow, it still does.


Some records leave. Some come back. And some stay.

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Listening in Greyscale: Meloy or Molko?

It took me a few seconds to realise I was wrong.

I was listening to my playlist on shuffle. Sixty-three hours practically demand this. A new song came on. The Infanta by The Decemberists. But my brain insisted it was Placebo. Brian Molko’s voice, unmistakable, slightly nasal, brittle at the edges, dramatic without trying.

I was so sure of it that I had to stop what I was doing and look it up. Mostly because I couldn’t remember adding any Placebo songs to my playlist recently, and it definitely wasn’t one of the older ones I used to like. Maybe a collaboration with Brian Molko?

No, it wasn’t him.

It was Colin Meloy.

That moment, that small musical misrecognition, revealed something about the way I listen to music. I don’t just hear songs. I hear ghost echoes. Overlaps. Connections that aren’t necessarily there, except that they are, for me.

Meloy’s voice in The Infanta sharpens, tightens, becomes theatrical in a way that briefly steps out of his usual folk warmth. And in that narrow space, Molko appears. A similar tension in the voice. The same slightly strained upper register. The same insistence in the consonants. A kind of emotional insistence.

Colin Meloy sings slightly lower than Brian Molko ever does, and that’s the strange part. The resemblance isn’t in the pitch. It’s in the placement. The way the voice sits forward in the mouth. The way tension is held rather than released. It’s colour, not register, that connects them. Not a perfect match. Just close enough to open a door.

It’s strange, the way the brain does this. How it pulls threads between artists, decades, genres. How one voice suddenly becomes a door to another. How listening turns into remembering. A song, an artist, sometimes even a film. Even when the memory isn’t quite real. It’s not fake either. It sits in greyscale, somewhere in between.

I often notice these things. A chord progression that reminds me of a song I can’t place. A voice that sounds like someone else’s shadow. I’ve learned that not everyone listens like that. For some, music is linear. For me, it’s layered. It’s a web.

And maybe that’s why music never really ends for me.
It just keeps talking to itself, across years and voices and songs, and I happen to be there, overhearing it.

It’s a bit like an ocean. One wave carries me into the next. Curiosity and an open mind pull me forward. Music never gets boring for me. There is always something to discover. A thread binding two songs or artists together, even if it’s invisible.

So when I thought The Infanta was sung by Brian Molko, it wasn’t really a mistake. It was my listening brain doing what it always does. Finding relationships. Building bridges. Refusing to keep things in neat boxes.

And who likes boxes anyway?

The Decemberists – The Infanta

Placebo – A Song to Say Goodbye

I know it is very subtle, but I cannot unhear the similarities between the voices.

Mark Hole: a voice worth discovering

I didn’t realise Mark Hole was still making music until I stumbled across his Instagram profile a couple of weeks ago. Part of that is probably down to me no longer being on many platforms. Artists have a way of slipping out of sight when your digital habits change. But there he was. Still active. Still sharing songs. Still very much present. Theholeofmark.


What caught my attention wasn’t just the fact that he was releasing music, but the sense of continuity. Mark has been open about becoming sober and about holding himself accountable, often through poetry and songwriting. That openness doesn’t dominate the music, but it gives it depth. It made me listen more closely again.
According to Spotify, Mark released five EPs in 2025 alone. Five releases in a single year suggest commitment and momentum, a need to stay close to the music rather than stepping away from it. I’m currently listening to the most recent EP, released on November 25th, and what stands out immediately is the amount of soul it carries. This is music that feels lived rather than constructed.


His songs are danceable, driven by rhythm and groove, but they don’t stop at the surface. The lyrics tell stories taken from life. They feel observant, sometimes playful, sometimes reflective, always grounded.


One aspect of his work that feels particularly interesting is the way he revisits his own songs. He shares then and now versions side by side, allowing listeners to hear what time, experience and persistence do to a voice and a song. It’s not about correcting the past or polishing it into something else. It’s simply about letting evolution be audible.


And then there is the voice. Distinctive, expressive, emotionally alert. A voice you don’t easily forget or confuse with another. It carries warmth and honesty and holds intensity without forcing it.


If you’re curious where to begin, here are three songs that offer a way in:


I’m Not Dancing For You


Will you love again?


Dirty Base


If you want to follow what Mark is currently working on, he shares music and thoughts on Instagram under theholeofmark, and his catalogue, including the recent EPs and the then & now versions, can be found on Spotify.


I hope you enjoy discovering this artist as much as I do.

https://www.instagram.com/theholeofmark?igsh=MXM1Z2V2cXViN3N6cA==

Addition: Mark’s newest release. Enjoy. I know I do. 🙂

Goodbye Chris Rea

I read the news that Chris Rea died today.
I didn’t sit with it. I put his music on almost immediately. That felt automatic. And once the record was playing, I opened a blank page and started writing this.


Chris Rea was my mother’s favourite artist. I grew up with his music, but not in a way that involved choosing or discovering it. It was just there. Part of the house. Something that existed alongside everything else.


My mother has been wheelchair bound for as long as I can remember. Because of that, there are no deep stories attached to his songs for me. But his music lived indoors, in her bedroom. On vinyl and on CD. Often enough that it stopped standing out and just became a memory attached to my mother.


When I later received my mother’s old record collection, that familiarity turned into ownership. Her vinyl became mine. All of it. Including her Chris Rea albums. That’s how my own collection grew. Not by seeking things out, but by inheriting what was already known. (Amongst it was Dire Straits, Chris Norman, Marillion, T-Rex… and of course Chris Rea)


I put on Fool (If You Think It’s Over) from Whatever Happened to Benny Santini (1978). I didn’t think about why. It was just the song that came, that I had to listen first. I changed albums and am listening to a different record now. Wired to the Moon (1984).

Chris Rea has passed away. It feels, and this may be a very weird or unrelatable thought, that something that attached me to my mother fell away today. I am not sad per se, but I feel it in my chest somehow.

The record is still playing as I finish this.

Underneath, I will add a couple of songs I really like.

RIP Chris Rea 1951-2025

https://open.qobuz.com/track/44667844

If Michael Jackson had made rock songs

This is one of those thoughts that shows up and then refuses to leave.


Ayron Jones sounds the way Michael Jackson might have sounded if he had made rock songs.
Not pop with a rock edge.
Real rock. Loud guitars. No shine.


Ayron Jones isn’t very well known, which is strange, because he should be. He’s from Seattle. He grew up around blues and rock, and you can hear that straight away. His voice isn’t smooth or careful. It sounds lived in.


What keeps pulling me in is how he uses his voice.
It sits high and it moves a lot.
He slides between notes instead of landing cleanly on them. Sometimes it sounds fragile, sometimes sharp. Often both at the same time. It never feels planned. And then there’s the way some words come out. Almost spat. Pushed forward. Said with anger or frustration.


That’s where the Michael Jackson comparison really clicks for me. MJ did that too, especially in Give In to Me. Words tightened in his mouth. Consonants sharpened. The voice wasn’t trying to sound pretty. It sounded like something had to get out. With Slash on guitar, that tension is right there on the surface. Ayron Jones does the same thing in his own way. Different music, same instinct. The feeling hits first. The voice follows.


If Michael Jackson had grown up with blues records and loud guitars instead of Motown rules and pop polish, I can imagine his voice ending up somewhere close to this.


I’m going to share Take Me Away.
Listen to it next to Give In to Me.
It’s not the same sound. But that moment where the words are almost thrown out in anger? That’s where they meet.


And once you hear it, you don’t really unhear it. Or at least I couldn’t. This is the way I listen to music. I don’t know. Maybe you can hear it too.

Otis Redding: he was only twenty-six

Today marks the anniversary of Otis Redding’s death. He was only twenty-six. He didn’t even make it to the so-called Club 27, the age we’ve come to associate with musicians who die young.
That number never really sits right with me. Because his voice doesn’t sound young. It sounds lived-in. Worn. Like someone who already knew too much about love, longing, devotion, and loss.


I don’t remember the exact moment I first heard Otis. I think it was after Etta James. I adore her. And once you fall for a voice like that, you start listening differently. You start searching without quite knowing you’re searching. And then Otis appears. And that’s it. You don’t really go back.


A lot of people don’t know this, but Respect was his song first. His version isn’t an anthem. It’s quieter, almost vulnerable. A man asking to be seen, asking for something simple. When Aretha Franklin took it, she turned it into power. I love that both versions exist. They speak to each other.


His first and only number one hit came after he was already gone. (Sittin’ On) The Dock of the Bay. He recorded it just days before the plane crash. You can hear something shifting in it. More space. Less urgency. That unfinished whistling at the end, because the lyrics weren’t done yet. It sounds like someone pausing, looking out, already half elsewhere.


And then there are the songs that stay with you because they hurt in the right way.


These Arms of Mine.
Try a Little Tenderness.
I’ve Been Loving You Too Long (To Stop Now).
Pain in My Heart.
I’ve Got Dreams to Remember.
My Girl.


That voice. The grain. The ache. It gives me actual frisson.


People are often surprised when I talk about Otis. Because when I talk about music, it’s usually prog rock or prog metal. Long songs. Complex structures. Dark atmospheres. Music that builds slowly and then overwhelms you. That’s what people expect from me. But this is just as much me. The soul, the passion.


Last August, we were on holiday in the Netherlands. I walked into a record shop, which I rarely do. I know myself too well. I see too many albums I want and don’t need. And on family holidays, I don’t like spending money on myself. But they insisted. The teenagers. My husband.
So I went in. Focused. Almost stern. Looking for something and nothing. And everything too.


The first record was obvious: Jeff Buckley – Grace. A classic. A given. If I had found Tim Buckley, I would have taken that too.


Then I saw Otis. No hesitation. No doubt.
Just this quiet certainty: I have to have this. This belongs with me.


I added Dire Straits – Love Over Gold and stopped there. I could have found many more. But this had to do.


Once we were home, Otis went on the turntable.
Loud. The way his music deserves to be played.
There’s pain in his voice, but there’s also warmth. Humanity. Nothing clever for the sake of being clever. Nothing hidden. Just truth.


He was only twenty-six. And he left behind music that still feels painfully alive.


If you don’t know where to start, start anywhere. Put on Dock of the Bay. Then I’ve Been Loving You Too Long. Let it build. Let it take its time.


You should listen to him.

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I listened to many hours of music this weekend and I enjoyed myself immensely.

I am aware, Spotify is not kind to musicians and artists. Not at all. But it is convenient. Unfortunately, yes. I am one of those people. Please enjoy the music too.

ghost in the machine (song review)

I was listening to a lot of music today and as I am writing this, there is still music playing in the background.

I listened to artists like Soen and Agent Fresco, but also Weather Systems. In September 2024 they released their debut album “Ocean Without a Shore”. I listened a lot to it for a while, but in the last six months, I only listened to the song Synaesthesia. Until today. I was in the mood to hear the entire album and so I pulled the beautiful vinyl (it’s blue with black swirls) out of its sleeve and put it on the turntable. Volume up. And off we went. I listened to the songs on vinyl, playing mindlessly on my phone. Until…

Until Ghost in the Machine came on. The song is built around a steady guitar riff that gives it forward momentum. The repetition works well here. It gives the track direction and a clear emotional line. The percussion provides the structure underneath without drawing attention away from the melody. It keeps the tempo and the shape of the song consistent.

The vocal work is one of the strengths. Daniel Cavanagh carries the main vocal line and Soraia Silva’s voice comes in at selected points, not to soften the sound but to expand it. Their voices blend into one atmosphere rather than forming a lead and backing contrast. It gives the song a unified emotional tone.

I knew the song before, of course I did, and I remember that I mentioned it in the album review I wrote as a standout song, but there was something about it that made me pause today, that grabbed my attention differently. There is no dramatic peak. The song does not build toward release. Instead, it fades gradually. A few piano notes close the track and lead directly into Are You There Pt. 2. The transition is subtle and fits the pacing of the album as a whole.

I like when music is layered. It often changes with every listen and also with our moods, I guess. And that is why we can listen to a song 50 times and think we already know it, and then on the 51st listen, it suddenly sounds new.

My song of the day for sure. What do you think? How do you like the song?

I added this video because I mentioned Daniel Cardoso’s drumming and here he plays the full song through.

Douglas Dare – Omni (album review)

In May 2014, I reviewed Whelm, Douglas Dare’s debut album, and praised it for its sparse beauty and lyrical weight. Now, almost exactly ten years later, I discovered Omni, his fourth and most daring album to date. It was released in May 2024 but had somehow stayed off my radar until recently.

Known for his piano-led minimalism and poetic songwriting, Dare takes a confident leap here. He embraces lush electronics, pulsing basslines and rhythmic tension. Omni is not a record that stays safely in the shadows. It pulses, flickers and invites movement, all while preserving the intimacy he is known for.

As someone whose taste usually leans toward heavier genres such as progressive rock, metal and dense arrangements, what continues to draw me to Dare’s music is not its volume but its emotional weight. There is a complexity in the restraint and a richness in the rawness. Omni feels simultaneously expansive and enclosed, like dancing alone in a dimly lit room while the world fades outside the door.

This is music that leans into sensuality and story. The electronic textures are meticulous but never sterile. There is breath in the beats and skin in the synths. My favourites – Absentia, Sailor, and No Island is a Man – are perfect examples of how emotion can be sculpted into sound. Absentia aches in its pauses. Sailor carries longing like a tide pulling memory and presence into one wave. No Island is a Man is both arresting and tender, its arrangement stunning in both vulnerability and strength.



Compared to the subdued piano ballads of Milkteeth (2020) or the fractured introspection of Aforger (2016), Omni moves with intent. It is bolder, darker in tone, but more fluid in form. It sheds the fragility of his earlier albums without losing the emotional core that defines his work.

Although I only discovered Omni recently, I listened to it all day for a couple of days in a row. It accompanied me through quiet work, restless thoughts, and even the writing of the heavier piece on mental health I shared recently. It held the background gently, anchoring me with its warmth and restraint, just like the best music does.

It is worth noting that Omni is not only Dare’s vision, but a collaboration shaped by sensitive and skilful production choices. The subtle textures and perfectly balanced arrangements speak of a team that knew exactly how to hold space for his voice and message.

Omni feels both nostalgic and forward-looking. It echoes influences while carving its own strange, beautiful path. It reminds me that emotive, art-driven music, whatever its genre, has the power to disarm and hold you still.
It was high time I took the time to write about this little electronic gem.

Find him and his links here: Douglas Dare

song of the day

Benson Boone – sorry I’m here for someone else

February 2025 brought a wave of strong new releases, and “Sorry I’m Here for Someone Else” by Benson Boone is no exception. It’s a striking follow-up to his breakout hit Beautiful Things, but with a different emotional texture. While that song thrived on raw vulnerability and soaring vocals, this one leans into a more danceable rhythm with a subtle yet undeniable 80s-inspired vibe. Think soft synths, a pulsing beat, and just the right touch of nostalgia.

It is introspective, yes, but it doesn’t wallow. Instead, it moves, both emotionally and sonically. Benson Boone continues to show range, delivering heartfelt storytelling with a voice that carries both ache and restraint, all wrapped in a surprisingly infectious sound.

song of the day

JAIN & Solomun – tout le monde est fou

If you’re familiar with the music I usually share on the blog, this song might surprise you in more than one way. First, it features a female vocalist – not unheard of here, but definitely less common. Second, it’s upbeat, danceable;  a proper club track. The version of Tout le monde est fou by Jain and Solomun was released in February 2025, and it’s a bold, rhythmic reimagining of the original.

You may have noticed I’ve been sharing more current releases lately. I’m not sure why, but there’s genuinely some brilliant new music out there right now. This track, for instance, stands out from my usual melancholic, atmospheric soundscapes. It’s vibrant, sharp, full of energy, and yet, it still carries a subtle edge of irony and social observation that speaks to me. Maybe that’s why it made it onto the blog.

Enjoy the song

music march 13/31

Max Giesinger – butterfly effect

The song was released in 2025 (February 21st)

If my childhood had been different, who would I be now? If kindness had outweighed the quiet, if voices had softened instead of sharpened, if I had felt seen rather than learning to disappear, would I still be me? Maybe I wouldn’t have found solace in words. Maybe I wouldn’t have built a world inside my mind, a place where I was both safe and free.

If I hadn’t listened to that album, the one that cracked something open in me, would my heart beat to a different rhythm? Would another song have found me, whispered its secrets, shaped my thoughts? Music has always been more than background noise. It is the thread tying moments together, the map leading me to myself.

If that friend had stayed, if the goodbye had never happened, what kind of person would I be now? Some people slip away, and at the time, it feels like a wound that won’t close. But in the end, those absences shape us as much as the presences. Loss carves space for something new, something unknown. Without that fracture, would I have learned to stand taller, trust my own voice?

If I hadn’t started writing, if I had ignored that first whisper urging me to put words on paper, would I have ever truly understood myself? Writing isn’t just a choice. It is a necessity, a thread woven into my being. Without it, I might still be searching for the pieces of myself that only writing ever made whole.

That is the butterfly effect. Small moments, tiny choices, a song, a book, a lost friendship. One shift in the past and the present might be unrecognizable. The person I am, the person I have become, exists because of all of it. Because of every “if” that led me here.

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Music march 12/31

Frank Turner – mittens



There’s a particular kind of heartbreak that doesn’t come from explosive fights or dramatic endings. It’s the slow kind, the one that lingers after you have given everything and realised it was never going to be enough. Frank Turner’s Mittens, released in 2016 on Positive Songs for Negative People, captures that feeling with brutal simplicity.

“I once wrote you love songs, you never fell in love.”

That line alone says more than most ballads ever do. Love songs are declarations, little lifelines thrown into the void in the hope that someone will catch them. But here, they don’t land. They exist, they are written, played, sung, but they do nothing. There is no grand rejection, no bitter fallout, just the realisation that love cannot be willed into existence, no matter how beautifully it is framed.

Then comes the line that seals it:

“We used to fit like mittens, but never like gloves.”

Mittens and gloves serve the same purpose, but they do it differently. Mittens force closeness, pressing fingers together in a shared warmth, but they lack precision. Gloves fit every curve, every space between fingers, allowing movement without losing connection. That difference is everything. There was comfort, there was something that felt safe, but it was never the right shape.

For a poet, this kind of writing works because it leaves room to breathe. It does not over-explain. It does not try too hard. It lets the image carry the weight, and in that restraint, it hits even harder.

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Music march 11/31

Saybia – I surrender

From the album “These are the Days” (2004)

Why this song today?

Because it’s about release without resolution.

Because it sounds like quiet thoughts that won’t settle.

Because it holds that push and pull between letting go and holding on, and I know that feeling too well.

Because “Into the arms of a beautiful stranger” isn’t always about a person, it’s about seeking comfort in places that don’t quite fit, about trying to fill a space that stays empty.

Because “Who really loves me?” isn’t just a lyric. It’s a thought that lingers, sometimes quietly, sometimes not.

Because it doesn’t end with certainty, just a choice to surrender.

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