So, last night, a man I know messaged me that he would kill himself. It is not the first time he sent messages like that and then blocked me. It makes me scared. And helpless, because he is far away. And I feel guilty.

For years he has been saying that he wants to meet me and he tells me that I am his dream girl. I reject him every time. I love my husband and don’t want to meet anyone else. But he makes me feel guilty. He showers me with compliments and then insults me when I am not reacting the way he wants me to.

I supported his art for years. And he pretend supported mine too. He bought all my books and every once in a while he would announce that he would start reading them. He never did and when I called him out, he insulted me again, saying I was selfish.

I am angry. Angry at that man for sending me a selfie of him crying and then blocking me. He has mental issues and I can’t help them.

When he messaged me before that he would kill himself, he always got back in touch a couple of days later apologizing that he was drunk. Which is the reason why I don’t believe him this time.

But what if this time he does it for real? I am not equipped to deal with this.

At the same time, I want to expose him for doing this. All the time and always again. For him, it is a game, he lies, and cheats on his wife. But me rejecting him bothers him so much that he does these things to me.

Do you have any ideas how to handle this? What to do?