These scars, they are not blemishes,
But symbols of my strength,
Guiding me through the darkest times,
To find my light at length.
They speak of courage in the face of adversity,
Of wounds that healed, yet left their trace,
Reminders that I’ve weathered life’s storms,
And emerged with a stronger, wiser grace.
These scars, they are not flaws to hide,
But badges of honor, worn with pride,
For they represent the growth I’ve found,
The lessons learned, the ground I’ve ground.
They are the proof that I can endure,
That darkness cannot dim my light for sure,
That I will rise, time and time again,
Unbroken, unshaken, and without disdain.
In the depths of my scars, I see my strength,
A fortitude that knows no bounds,
A resilience that cannot be bound,
A spirit that forever resounds.
So I wear these scars with reverence and grace,
Embracing the story they boldly trace,
For they are the map of my journey so far,
A testament to the warrior that I are.
They remind me that I have the power to heal,
To overcome, to conquer, and to reveal
The true essence of who I’m meant to be,
A vision of hope, a light for all to see.
These scars, they are not burdens to bear,
But gifts that have shaped me, beyond compare,
Empowering me to face each new day,
With the strength to pave my own way.
So I celebrate these scars, my battle-worn marks,
For they are the proof that I’ve walked through the dark,
And emerged stronger, wiser, and more complete,
Ready to embrace the light that I meet.
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“Joffer Cathy, why do you have these light lines there” [4 year old points to my arms]
“they are a part of who I used to be and who I became” [as soon as I said it, I knew I said too much and braced myself]
[shrugs] “may I have the felt-tip pens to colour?]
I had this conversation this morning with a little girl at work. I am 41 and talking about my scars and self-harm scares me shitless. Mostly because I know I could relapse again and again…

